A Description of the Unique, One-of-a-Kind Relationship Dynamic Between the Senior and Executive Pastors 

One of my all-time favorite movies is Crimson Tide. Have you seen it? There's trouble in Russia, and the American ballistic missile submarine, Alabama, is ordered into action. The captain, played by Gene Hackman, has just selected a new executive officer (XO), played by Denzel Washington. The captain and XO end up at odds with one another over proper ballistic missile launch procedure under the ship's circumstances on patrol. It's a pretty cool movie if you ask me!

I've had numerous discussions with new executive pastors and individuals considering serving in this role about the relationship between senior and executive pastors. Is it like that of a corporate CEO and COO/CFO? Is it a typical "boss, subordinate" relationship?

I say, "No." The relationship is unlike any other similar relationship. There are a few books out there that I always recommend when I'm having one of these discussions. The best is Leading From The Second Chair, by Mike Bonem and Roger Patterson. You can check it out in My Bookshelf.

The relationship is more like that of a ship's captain and executive officer. Do I mean that the senior and executive pastors are at odds with each other? No. At least, I certainly hope not, and that has not been my experience. However, you'll get the idea if you watch the movie and pay attention to how Gene and Denzel interact with each other and the crew.

The captain gives orders directly to the crew without going through the XO. This is especially true when the captain "has the conn." Having "the conn" refers to piloting the ship and being responsible for the ship's actions and safety. So, the senior pastor is responsible for the church, much like a ship's captain is responsible for the ship. When key directional changes are being considered, or the "safety" of the church is in question, the senior pastor will have direct involvement in directing the staff (the crew), sometimes not going through the executive pastor, necessarily.

Onboard ship, the XO is the "go-to" person for the captain and is the primary leader for most day-to-day operational activities. The XO is also the direct supervisor for the crew, dealing with the crew's ongoing issues. The executive pastor, like the XO, is the day-to-day leader of the staff, working with them to help them successfully lead their individual ministry areas. The executive pastor might also help the crew, on occasion, understand and interpret the requests and desires of the senior pastor.

Like the XO, the executive pastor operates independently as it relates to directing the staff but always keeps the senior pastor informed about what's going on and, most importantly, never does anything to undermine the senior pastor. Over time, the executive pastor becomes so in sync with the senior pastor that their decisions are consistently aligned with the senior pastor's wishes.